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Ftblk36 Wrote:Sorry to hear it big lad, never an easy thing to do! I wish you well.
Thanks. Honestly I don't know why it's gone on as long as it has. I think she more wanted to be married than to be married to me if that makes sense. We're making each other miserable and it's time we moved on.
Luckily in Texas anything you bought before the marriage you keep so glad I bought my house first. I may be sleeping on the floor but at least noone will be bitching at me for doing it. I'm 36, young enough (in my mind) to start fresh and try to get some enjoyment out of life.
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In NJ, the woman walks with what is considered half but its nearly all. Think she even takes your cock & balls with her in the divorce. Tough state.
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biggin Wrote:Thanks. Honestly I don't know why it's gone on as long as it has. I think she more wanted to be married than to be married to me if that makes sense. We're making each other miserable and it's time we moved on.
Luckily in Texas anything you bought before the marriage you keep so glad I bought my house first. I may be sleeping on the floor but at least noone will be bitching at me for doing it. I'm 36, young enough (in my mind) to start fresh and try to get some enjoyment out of life.
You are definately young enough, hope all goes well for you bro. Hey it'll be fun lookin for the next one at least, relive the single days once you put this all behind you.
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biggin Wrote:Thanks. Honestly I don't know why it's gone on as long as it has. I think she more wanted to be married than to be married to me if that makes sense. We're making each other miserable and it's time we moved on.
Luckily in Texas anything you bought before the marriage you keep so glad I bought my house first. I may be sleeping on the floor but at least noone will be bitching at me for doing it. I'm 36, young enough (in my mind) to start fresh and try to get some enjoyment out of life.
Marriage is not easy, no doubt I am on my 2nd. The first one I left him because of something similar we were too young and he drank to much and didnt come home, just took advantage of my good nature.
This one has been a little bit rocky since we have grown apart some, but the good thing is he is finally making changes for his health. So I gotta stick it out and help train him.
Just the lack of sex sucks. Like once every two weeks or if I am lucky once a week. It was never like this before.
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It's been once since Thanksgiving for me. I know marriage is hard work but I don't want to live with someone who doesn't like me for who I am. I even quit drinking 9 months ago, not a single drink, and she still treats me like shit. Just one of those people that everything is someone else's fault and everything needs to be changed to suit her needs and mine don't matter.
Just sucks but the talks have started. Will check in from time to time to let you know I haven't been killed in my sleep.
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Marriage is absolutely work, requires effort on both sides to be successful. You do not want to stay in a situation for which improvement is not possible. It adversely affects many aspects of your life. Sometimes you need to seek professional help, other times you need to move on.
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Stpat529 Wrote:Marriage is absolutely work, requires effort on both sides to be successful. You do not want to stay in a situation for which improvement is not possible. It adversely affects many aspects of your life. Sometimes you need to seek professional help, other times you need to move on.
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Well said.
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Stpat529 Wrote:Marriage is absolutely work, requires effort on both sides to be successful. You do not want to stay in a situation for which improvement is not possible. It adversely affects many aspects of your life. Sometimes you need to seek professional help, other times you need to move on.
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I completely agree. It can be rocky sometimes but I think when it's time you know. It's definitely time for me.
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Longest relationship is 7 years
longest with a girl is 9months
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Ftblk36 Wrote:The wife and I where together for eight years then got married, been together for 18 years!!!! I'd be out by now if I'd killed her 
Bahahahahahhhah.....yes this is feloniously fantastic
