you got to have realistic goals, goals that you can reach and accomplish, say first goal is to loose 10lbs then once you get that done set another and hit it, this way you feel good about yourself and you want to do more

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People say to me its possible to be too big.....but for me I dont want a physique thats average something thats reachable, I want something thats unobtainable that looks like its so hard to get, yes women hate it, BUT I FUCKIN LOVE IT....SO FUCK IT!! why do I want this??? CAUSE NORMAL FUCKIN SUCKS!!!